tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021135487628671682.post7911195854445135171..comments2024-03-25T15:21:24.031+08:00Comments on Beanie N Us!: Good? Oh no, don't call her good!beanienushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01134360845059912145noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021135487628671682.post-66452101967523816072012-03-15T18:26:20.184+08:002012-03-15T18:26:20.184+08:00Adora,
I lurrrrve your letter D! :DAdora, <br /><br />I lurrrrve your letter D! :Dbeanienushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01134360845059912145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021135487628671682.post-19357379927561230442012-03-15T18:25:56.674+08:002012-03-15T18:25:56.674+08:00Hey Evelyn,
I received your questions. Will repl...Hey Evelyn, <br /><br />I received your questions. Will reply ASAP. Was on leave today and am swarmed with work. Can only peek into FB once in a while. :pbeanienushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01134360845059912145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021135487628671682.post-47548141563851140912012-03-15T00:55:36.416+08:002012-03-15T00:55:36.416+08:00Love it and super agree as well!!!Love it and super agree as well!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12140142215352358254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021135487628671682.post-19650893214780857592012-03-14T12:23:08.471+08:002012-03-14T12:23:08.471+08:00I think sometimes even we tend to brush off compli...I think sometimes even we tend to brush off compliments that we receive ourselves!<br /><br />So perhaps it starts there? :)<br /><br />Btw I've emailed you!Evelynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366950681729753976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021135487628671682.post-8903803843474321502012-03-13T21:37:14.087+08:002012-03-13T21:37:14.087+08:00Bean bean,
Welcome and thanks for dropping by to...Bean bean, <br /><br />Welcome and thanks for dropping by too. Yes as children we 'learn' behaviors right? And because of that we end up doing things 'the old way'! :) <br /><br />Pls visit again :)beanienushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01134360845059912145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021135487628671682.post-17404476571126213012012-03-13T21:35:07.053+08:002012-03-13T21:35:07.053+08:00Hi Regina,
Thanks for stopping by! And yes, we som...Hi Regina,<br />Thanks for stopping by! And yes, we sometimes forget that they are just standing next to us and can understand exactly what we say. Pls drop by again! :)beanienushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01134360845059912145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021135487628671682.post-56141069404065756302012-03-13T16:33:07.314+08:002012-03-13T16:33:07.314+08:00Hi there, just dropped by from the Mom Bloggers gr...Hi there, just dropped by from the Mom Bloggers group too. It really is a very Asian thing to do to downplay praises. I still remember feeling hurt when my Mum did it when I was a child too! Now things have come full circle and I catch myself doing it. Working on just saying thanks :)mummybeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05206531564649548206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9021135487628671682.post-33679781444308442592012-03-13T12:42:31.498+08:002012-03-13T12:42:31.498+08:00Hi ya!
Dropping by from the Singapore Mom Blogger...Hi ya!<br /><br />Dropping by from the Singapore Mom Bloggers group on FB.<br /><br />I totally agree with you. I have to admit that I have caught myself doing the same 'brush off a compliment and attempt to be humble' thing the first few times strangers have passed comments on my son. Ironically, I did so with a puffed up pride which I tried to cover with the disparaging comment.<br /><br />Thankfully, I caught myself before my son is able to understand much of what's going on around him - and I do not intend to do so ever again, especially now that he's more aware of compliments and attention.<br /><br />Our intention may be to be humble or coy about the compliment passed, but to a child, it would mean a world of difference for his self-esteem.<br /><br />Thanks for this reminder! :)MummyMOOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02189852692346374053noreply@blogger.com